Now that you've had some time to think about your identity there's a reason you need to have the same mind as Jesus. If you continue to read down through the verses you will see that having that mind will help you become the person God created. You will be able to submit to God's will for your life. When you understand that, you have to disperse your will and inadequacies for the will of God. It becomes a labor of love. You do it willingly. Even when it gets hard you know it isn't about you. You are able to weather the storm fearlessly because you know God is with you. You realize that God loves you and He will take care of you no matter what you're facing.
You learn to look to God more and people less. God doesn't have a problem getting things done. You start living a life directed by God and you will find yourself living a life of adventure. Life that's full of life. Not everyday will be perfect but your perspective will change. When you look at things from the perspective of the love of God and for the love of others you are able to persevere. It could be compared to a mother's love for her child or her children. A mother will do anything to protect, provide for, and take care of her children.
As you are following God you will learn that not everyone will understand or agree with you. There will even be those that try to tell you why you can't or shouldn't. In order to take the initial step you may have to go without telling a living soul. If you're married you will need to get the support of your spouse. If they aren't in agreement, turn it over to God and allow Him to get them there and don't move forward until they are on board. When you start seeing signs of progress don't stop following God's direction. What He has given you to do is Him expressing Himself through you. Since you don't have the full picture of what He wants it and you to be you have to stay in lock step with Him. If you need GPS to get somewhere you don't cut it off halfway there or you will get lost or never arrive at your destination. That's why keeping God first place in your life is critical.